These blogs give you an impression of the working of family constellations at the level of the soul.
A beautiful and clear article of Jack Blackwell, a family constellator in the States.
A chapter of my book: 'Depression, a Stepping-stone towards Bliss'
The solution of your problem is directly related with how much distance you can take from your mother; with how much distance you can take from your parents.
The Truth heals the Delusion